she said that...

yesterday, i met this woman for litle chat about psychology. i told her three things that bother me a lot lately.i think it's a good thing to have conversation with somebody else who can see my problem from the other side. I got some advice from her. one of her advice have deepst meaning, she said that if u help someone the only u can do is just help not take his/her responsibility.i think that's right, everybody must take his/her own cross and have their resposibility for improve their gift by their own self. thank u very much mrs irina..